Finally we know: 13,24 cm is the worldwide average!

size_penis_statueWhen it comes to the male body, the only thing men really seem to be concerned about – apart from not having a six pack maybe – is the size of their penis. “Size matters” they say. Who is ‘they’ – and is it really true? What is small, what is big and what is average?

Let’s start with some facts. Today I have received information about a recent study concerning the average erect penis size. Worldwide the penis sizes of 15.000 men have been compaired. This is the result:

The average length of an erect penis is 13,24 cm. That is about 1 cm shorter that a regular ballpoint, by the way.

The average width of an erect penis is 11,66 cm. That is almost 1,5 cm less than the width of an austrian empty toilet paper roll. Yes, I messured it personally :)

Now, the average depth of a vagina is about 8 to 10 cm. When the woman is aroused it may be 12 cm deep tops. Conclusion: an erect penis with a length between 8 to 12 cm suffices perfectly.

When it comes to penis width I do admit it is a different story. A slender penis could be more of a problem than a shorter one. Why? Because most nerv endings are at the entrance of the vagina and the vulva. That means a certain penis width does generate more friction and therefore more pleasure for her. But then there are women who do not want a thick penis, simply because their vagina is not that wide. Not many people seem to realize that vagina’s also have different sizes! Some women can hardly put in a tampon, others have no problem inserting an eggplant…

penis_happy_womanSo dear men, please don’t think you need to have a 20 cm erection to make a woman’s dream come true. It is a myth! The only reason you think that is because of the pornography you watch. You compair yourself to the exception, to a fantasy that I am sure does not comply with the female perspective. Yes, some women may prefer a bigger erect penis because they have a wider vagina (or because they get more moist than the average woman and as a result of that feel less during intercourse – also something one has to take into consideration!). But in gereral, we are perfectly happy with average – as long as the guy knows what to do with it ;)

In the end, it is all about finding a partner that fits to you – in the widest (or tightest) sense of the word.


“It is not the size of the boat that matters, it’s the motion of the ocean.”

Male Body of the Week (week 41)

Photo by Mariah Carle

On the weekend we received a message from a man called Martin, asking if Naked Men, Happy Women would be interested in posting some nude pictures of himself. He writes:

“I’ve been looking for a website like yours for while, from women, for women. I enjoy exposing myself for women and was wondering if you’re interested in nude pictures of me. I’ve attached one, and would be honored if you used it on your website. Obviously, I have a rather tiny penis, so I’m not sure if that fits with the theme of your website. If you like them though, I have more of them and I can send you a link to where you can find them online.”

Image by Mariah Carle


It is true that on most, or maybe even every photo on this blog, the men who show all have ‘regular’ to ‘bigger’ sized penises. It is not on purpose though. When we choose to post an image, we look at the whole body and the style of the photo, and not the size of the penis. Until now we’d never stumbled upon good photos of naked men with smaller cocks. Thanks to Martin though, we have a few goodies to share with you ladies! Enjoy!

Image by Mariah Carle


Something to think about:

What is regular?
What is big?
What is small?

Image by Mariah Carle


“Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them.”

– David Hume’s Essays, Moral and Political, 1742

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