Request complied :)

Not even 24 hours later I found the following belly pictures of M. in my mailbox. I like a man who fulfills my wishes and on such short notice! ;) K. wrote M. was a bit worried that his belly is not as muscular as the one in one of my more recent posts. My response: what is pleasing for the eye is not also pleasing for the touch :)
I like the pictures! Thanks, K. and M.!






Male Bodypart Competition – Ladies Only :)

One of my female fans wrote me the following message:

I am K. and an avid reader of your yummy blog. Recently I got an idea to challenge my man M. into showing off a little. Well I bet with him about something. And guess what, he lost his bet ( ;-) lucky me). I challenged him to show something of him to other women. And now I thought about your blog. I guess you’ve got an awful lot of (female) readers, who might help me out with an idea, which body part to show and to evaluate the result :-) *grin*

I appended two body parts I love most about him – his hands and his lips :-D (and he is a good kisser too)
Maybe you’ll want to make a little survey or poll on nmhw.

My response: “I like the idea! Can I post the pictures you have sent me?”

She said yes. And she is willing to photograph any body part of M. YOU ladies choose! Now, since it is my blog, I feel I have the first choice. So I choose ‘belly’ because – as you all know – I just love male bellies!

I would like to make this idea of K. a bit bigger too. How about you ladies send me a picture of the male bodypart of your boyfriend/husband you love most? One rule though: no masturbating pics or anything that goes in that direction (because otherwise WordPress shuts me down again).

I am looking forward to your contributions! And to M.’s belly :)



My friend dares again

It goes without saying that sexualized images of nude women are widely accepted in western culture, while images of nude men are not. I think Gabi’s motivations behind the NMHW blog are in part political. In addition to displaying images of nude men that are intrinsically enjoyable, she’s arguing against the social voice that says that women cannot enjoy looking. This has repercussions in other areas in the relationships between men and women. For my part, I’m happy to be part of her work so here I am. (Apologies to the censors at WordPress for the erection.) If any readers would like to see more of me, let Gabi know and it can be arranged.
~ The model


They are your photos, you can use them as you please. I don’t think there is anything wrong with them. Being a woman, I am only concerned with not using my name because I feel that our society looks differently at women than they do at men. I’m sure no one would think twice about a man photographing a nude woman but the opposite isn’t true.
~ The photographer

Unfortunately she is right.

NHMW temporary lock down

Yesterday some of you may have noticed that this blog had been shut down. I did not know what hit me! I identify myself with this blog, it is my everything. And then all of a sudden, without warning, it was gone… Of course I contacted support immediately and they wrote me back within 12 hours. As you can see the suspension has been removed, but I need to delete images that contain active masturbation or depictions of genital fondling, for these are considered pornographic and are not in line with their policy on mature content.

I will remove these images in the following days, so if there is anything in particular that you like, you should look for it and safe it. NMHW will continue the quest, but less naughty. I can live with that, I hope you too :)

The penis selfie – how women respond to the pic of your d*ck

When I was still at home with my baby daughter and more or less going out of my mind with boredom, I started working a couple of hours per week for an Austrian dating site. I mostly answered e-mails of our customers, but I also had to check new profiles and recently uploaded photos of our members. I was amazed how many men rather posted a selfie of their penis (and/or their car…!) rather than their face. And it were mostly our female customers who reported those pics to customer support. I had to think of this job when I saw the following video earlier today. Pictures of different penises are being show to a couple of women. See how they react:

Dear men, I am sorry but it is true: most women are not particularly happy when you sms a picture of your penis, no matter in what state it is in. There are a couple of reasons:

1. The penis is still taboo
2. Women – in general – find other male bodyparts more erotic
3. Women are picky and suckers for detail – you may lose an opportunity…

I will get into these three explanations more thoroughly now.

1. The penis has not been freed of its taboos just yet
Even though I am working oh so hard to free the male body of its taboos – his penis included – especially the penis is still being seen as something disgusting, a bodypart that is more pornographic than the vulva and/or a necessary evil for the means of procreation only. No one will find it strange if a man says he loves looking at pussy. When a woman says she’s just crazy about penises and enjoys looking at them, it is considered weird or even abnormal. How many women nowadays don’t look at the penis when a man undresses or during sex? How many men find it strange c.q. are not used to when a woman does look closely at his body? Hmm?

2. Men and women find different things erotic
Of course there are enough women out there who do love looking at a penis – and who are also willing to say it out loud no matter what society thinks of them. Otherwise NMHW would not exist. But still, receiving a message from your love interest showing a close up of his penis is kind of in your face. It would be more erotic if it’s a picture of his hand going in his undies, or maybe just showing the base of the penis, playing with light and shadow, and leaving the rest up to our vivid imaginations. Most of us girls just tick differently than you guys… This could very well be because of my former point: women are not used to look so directly at penises, so they tend to not find them as erotic and sexy as men do the vulva.

3. But when we look, we look closely!
As you can see in the video, women may firstly react kind of shocked, but then we start looking. Really looking. Women have an eye for detail – and find those details important, very important. They like this, but not that. For instance, I have a reader who does not like circumsized penises. Some women prefer slender penises, others thick ones. Shaved, unshaved, erect, not erect, with piercing, without, cumshot, you name it. Now let’s imagine the following:

Mary – a fictional woman – is a member on a dating platform, looking for a boyfriend. She usually picks men who are blonde, with big blue eyes and broad shoulders. She likes a man who is funny, who can cook, who loves going the movies and travelling to France.
Let’s say you are a man on that particular platform and fit the profile. You chat a bit, she seems interested. Then, in stead of sending her a picture of your face, you standing in front of the Louvre or serving a home made Salade Nicoise to your beloved mother, you send her a selfie of your penis…
First she’s like: “What the hell?!” Then she starts looking closly. Oh noes! You are circumsized! Your penis is so thick! One ball is bigger than the other! It points a bit to the right! You trimmed your pubic hair! Details, details.
You won’t do that when she’d send you a close up of her pussy. You’d probably be quite “happy”. I am really sorry to say, but she does look at every single detail, absorbs them and assesses them.
Mary will then send you an annoyed message back, report you to customer support, blog your profile. She will not find out that you are the guy she’s been looking for all her life, that you willingly grow your pubic hair back for her, that you have a beautiful erection, that you know how to please a woman in ways she can’t even begin to imagine and can cook her favourite dish… Chance wasted.

So dear guys, unless a woman specifically asks for a close up picture of your penis, don’t send her one just like that, unexpected and out of the blue. And if she asks, ask her how she would like it. Try to fulfil her fantasy, tease her – like she might be willing to tease you…


For me this picture is extremely erotic… Mmm!