Thanks to K. and M. we can now enjoy the weekend properly :)
“Never underestimate the power of a great ass.”
Friday the 15th of May I had the pleasure of attending the second annual boylesque festival in Vienna, produced by Jaques Patriarque – the ex-boyfriend (if I am not mistaken) of Conchita Wurst. It was just as funny, sexy and impressive as last year. I mean, who doesn’t want to see men strip and shake their tushy ;)
I am not into men wearing corsets, high heels and stockings, but some looked amazingly good in them!
I have made some snapshots with my phone to share with you. The images are not that great, though. Next year I will bring my camera :)
According to the german (s)expert, author and columnist Jana Förster many men complain that most women don’t know how to give a good blow job. Supposedly men feel more “processed” because women think a blow job is a fixed part of foreplay. They don’t do it because they want to do it.
As I read the german article I had to think of my first relationship. Because the sex was extremely boring and uninspired, I often felt I should just give a blow job to get it over with or to avoid having to have sex all together. These blow jobs were affective, but probably not worth mentioning – and not enjoyable for me at all. Also a motivation to consider when it comes to bad blow jobs…
Förster says men don’t just want the “in & out” technique. One guy brought it to the point: just do it the same way you women want to get licked. I think this is a very good tip – if the man receiving is able to let go and enjoy this special treat. I have heard often enough that men are not ably to submit to the feeling. She may be down on her knees for him, but she’s in control of his orgasm. Men who can’t handle that usually do demand the fast, hard in & out sucking like they see in porn movies – so that they can come quickly. A shame really, because it can be so much more.
So what are good blow job tips? First and foremost I have to agree with Lvstprinzip, which means ‘priciple of lust’ (if you can read german, follow this woman by the way!): if you don’t want to do it, then don’t do it. Just imagine a guy who is not motivated going down on you… No fun, or?
I always say: it should not be a blow job, but a blow hobby. This means the woman giving it should not only be willing to give it, she should be enjoying it. If a blow hobby is lustful to her, it most certainly will be very lustful to him!
Include his balls, the inside of his thighs, his belly – and include yourself.
Lick, stroke, suck, bite, kiss, slow, fast, control. In other words: play and have fun!
Oh: and if he is not able to enjoy all this and just wants you to give him a boring in & out blow job, you can always be a bad girl ;)
This week is not a very good week for me. I quit my job and I am very upset that it had to come to this. But in the end it is nothing more than a page being turned, so let’s see what the future has in store for me.
Anyway, after a very nervwrecking start of the week I found the following message in my NMHW Mailbox:
I came across your site today and truly applaud what you are doing. American women are especially puritanical about male nudity. I love looking at photos of naked women but also love to be looked at and desired. I’m 41 and due to my profession I often find myself in remote places. At some point I have begun taking nude photos set against a wilderness background. I’ve attached 1 photo that was taken in Greenland so please let me know what you think? If you like it I have many more I’d be willing to submit.
It was wonderful to get this compliment, especially after the day I’d had, and I like the photo Kevin sent me, so I asked for more, more, more :) He complied my request *wink* and also added a text explaining his motivation.
“As for why I like to do this, It just makes me feel more connected to nature, it feels almost primal. On this trip through the Arctic I was alone and didn’t see another person for the first four days until I met some Inuit hunters. The next four days were also spent in solitude and I really had the opportunity to think and reflect on my life. Just about 2 months prior to this I had someone take my first ever nude photos in the Grand Canyon and I was really proud of how they turned out. Being over 40 I had been feeling that my days of being desirable to women when naked were in the past, but I thought my photos turned out pretty well. It inspired me to take a few photos each day while hiking the Arctic Circle Trail. I used a timer app on an iPhone 5 to take these but obviously a female photographer would have been more fun!”
So dear ladies, do you want to see Kevin naked in the Grand Canyon?
It’s obvious I have a thing against the whole Fifty Shades hype.
But as you can see in the following honest trailer I am not the only one :)
I was looking for hot images of actor Charlie Cox and found Michiel Huisman, who you may know from Treme and Game of Thrones. Now there’s some good quality from my country :)
Oh, and did I ever mention I have a thing for scars…?