More, more, more!
A few months ago this blog caught the attention of Loren Johnson, a Tantric Yoga and Chi Kung instructor. He asked me to have a look at his webpage and give him my opinion. I felt very honored, but also a bit unsure on what to say.
I do not know much about Yoga in general, and my knowledge of Tantric Yoga is minimal as well. But what I could comment on, were the images and the short video – and give him my opinion as a woman observing a naked man practising tantric yoga.
The video made me curious, which was the first positive comment I had to offer:). In return Loren offered to send me the whole DVD. It has taken a while for me to receive it, but today I finally got lucky! I have just finished watching the instructional DVD twice. The first time I simply let the images flow over me. The second time I paid more attention to the information.
The DVD is not too esoteric or fancy pancy. I actually find it quite down to earth. All you see, is a man exercising in an empty room. The images of the man are direct, but not in an embarrasing way. The music in the background is quite relaxing (you have the option to switch it off) and the information being given clear and thorough.
From a female point of view, I (of course!) enjoyed watching the male nudity in such an open and honest way. In addition, I have learned some new and useful techniques that I can practise on my partner, which makes Loren’s Tantric Yoga not only interesting for men, but for men-loving-women as well.
In short: if I would be a man – and unfortunately in this case I am not – I would feel motivated to start doing the exercises, which are being shown by Loren himself by the way. A beautiful and sexy naked man!
Thank you Loren!
Just watch and enjoy his gorgeous body! Me happy \o/
Simply a very sexy image
(I see some resemblance with Sawyer from Lost…)
See! I am not the only one
In my opinion women are very visual indeed. We look, and we observe, and we undress you men in our minds just as you do with us ladies. I think that men probably don’t really know what exactly we like to look at – and when it comes to male-orientated porno they probably also do not care, which is actually okay for otherwise it would not be male-orientated – and for that we women should admit we are partially to blame. If we do not tell them what we like to see, how can they know? We are probably not even sure, or honest, about this towards ourselves.
I would like to urge you to have a look on Francesca Rizzo’s homepage, for she proves my point:
If you scroll down, you will find a series of photos with a naked male model, shot by a male photographer. Underneath you see the pictures a female photographer has made of the same model, to show what she finds erotic. Very different, and very fascinating, or?
We should take out our cameras and “shoot” men the way we perceive them as hot, beautiful and erotic – and we should do this a lot more!
The interview with Francesca inspired me to start thinking of a Top Ten Male Body Parts that women find sexy to look at. So feel free to share your Top Ten – or your number 1 hottest male body part – on NMHW! Mine will come soon!
A few days ago I read an article by a man, about naked men in ads and commercials. For those of you who are interested:
Is it me, or are there more naked men in ads these days?
Of course I am very happy with this development, and no, not for pleasure reasons only. It simply works. A label X underwear ad showing an almost naked male body wearing some nice underpants makes me think: “hmm, that looks good, let’s buy it for the boyfriend!” It triggers my fantasies, and off I go to the shop. We like to buy presents for our men, you know
Having naked men in commercials and advertisement for women-orientated products is even smarter: if a bag of label X is attracting handsome naked men, or a dress of another label gets them to force me down to the floor and make passionate love to me, I should have bought those must-have’s yesterday already!
It seems that advertising agencies are starting to realize that women also watch commercials on TV and ads in magazines (do I sound sarcastic here?). But seriously: more, more, more, I say!
The naked man sells just as well as the naked woman!
I had already started to look for nice examples some time ago, and tonight decided to continue my search to enrich my blog. Underneath you find the results. Enjoy!
I have been thinking about writing something about the male ass for quite some time now, for it’s one of my favorite male body parts. I love the shape, the firmness and the soft skin. I love looking at them, and even more touching, kissing and squeezing them. Whenever Boyfriend passes me by in his comfy pants or boxershorts, bends forward or offers me another window of opportunity, I pull them down and have a look at them. Sometimes it annoys him, but hey, me likes them!
Up until a few years ago, it would never have crossed my mind to do anything else with the male behind but carress it. I am not sure why. Definitely not because I thought it was something for gay men only. I just was not in to ass – for I considered the ass an exit, not an entrance – and I lacked knowledge. Therefore my own ass was a well-guarded restricted area as well. But when mine slowly but surely started to get explored, I felt the least I could do was to return the favour.
When couples come to my shop and the men try to convince their girlfriends or wives to buy a toy for anal pleasure – with the intention for them to use on the female behind of course – not only my need for equal treatment wants to get satisfied; I see a challenge! So I start talking about how nice it is for him to use it to stimulate the prostate. In the almost twelve months that I am working in the erotics shop, all reactions are the same: the woman starts laughing and shaking her head (for she knows he is so not into that); the man grabs his ass in distress and tells me ‘no way‘.
My answer: ‘do you know that by ignoring your anus, you deny yourself 50% of your sexuality?‘ All I can do then, is hope that thought somehow makes them think – and their curiosity awakens.
Many hetero sexual men don’t mind playing with ours, but do not let us ladies go down on theirs. Not only unfair – for hey: quid pro quo – but silly too.
Apart from the fact that there are many nerv ends in and around the anus to stimulate by touching and kissing, the male prostate is the equivalent of the female G-spot. Massaging it gently can lead to intense, mind-blowing good orgasms, even without touching anything else. Combine it with other pleasurable acts and it can drive the man insane – in a positive sense! Why deny a loving woman the fulfillment of giving this experience to her man?
So gentlemen, think twice – and think hard – when your lady offers to love you from behind